With recent events and shifts of major things that feel wildly uncomfortable, I like many of you have witnessed and felt a great deal of intensified separation in the world. I’ve come to realize that that one of the core reasonings for this separation steams from the energy of fear and judgment. Then I dug deeper and asked myself what is judgment? Judgement is an evaluation of a person or situation and a labeling of that person or situation as being wrong or inferior in comparison to how we might otherwise choose to be, do, react and so on. When we judge, we are consciously or unconsciously viewing a person or situation as less than. The underlying reasoning that most people judge is that it is a programmed behavior from our society. The intention behind viewing another as less than is in an effort to built oneself up in the hope that they feel higher than. However, in actuality we are all created as equals. So when we choose to find judgement in another, we are actually lowering ourselves energetically as well. The true fact of the matter is that we are all one. The only thing that judgement really accomplishes is separation. Separation is an illusion we have created to make ourselves either feel safe and or better than another. In reality, there is no one human that is better than the next. We are all children of God. We are all perfect beings of creation. We are all made from the same energy of love. When we judge, we are judging something about ourselves that is mirroring something deep down in either our conscious or subconscious mind. The separation that is caused from the energy of judgement creates great suffering. The separation that is created from judgment creates an energetic void in our real reality of us all being from the same energy of love. As long as humans view themselves as separate from others and better or less than another, their will continue to be conflict and suffering in the world.
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So how do we get out of this judgement mindset we’ve created for ourselves? We adopt the mantra and belief that we are all one. That we are all children of God. We are all made of the same energy of unconditional LOVE. From the homeless man on the street, to the store clerk, to the Doctor performing heart surgery and the mother of 4 children. We are all ONE! It’s shifting our awareness to the knowing that we don’t know anyones full life story or circumstances. We will never fully understand another’s journey. The shift happens when we choose to love people and respect the journey that they’re on. Even if their journey looks quite different than ours. It’s choosing to shift into love, acceptance and respect and away from judgement, fear and separation.
As we begins to make these shifts, we will be able to move from a judgmental mindset and way of being into a more peaceful way of being lead by an observational mindset. From this observational space, we can clearly see that a person is making a life choice that seems different than ours. We can observe the difference and respect the others path before we move over into judgment. We can recognize that the other persons path and choices along their path are different than ours. Then from a respectful stand point, we can realize and know that where that person is now and what they are doing now is in perfect alignment for where they are suppose to be on their journey. This observation perspective is inline with the reality of our oneness as human beings. As each of us moves out of judgement and into the loving observant way of seeing the world, we become an offering of unconditional love to everyone we encounter. This love creates a ripple effect of unconditional love that will move far beyond the people you encounter. When you move more fully into love you energetically give others the permission to do the same.